Saturday, November 22, 2008

Planning Vs Living???

So after a conversation with my cousin about how we (two women) like to know what is going to happen tomorrow and maybe next week too but find it very difficult for the men in our lives to think that far ahead because they (two men) seem to live only in the moment.

I am currently obsessing over an issue that I definitely do not have control over and the idea of not knowing whats happening drives me insane! I was trying to have a conversation with the man in my life about this issue, but he prefers to wait and see the outcome of the issue before talking or planning about it and I just feel a little bothered that he won't budge not even a little. I am able to live in the moment about certain issues but life changing/deciding issues, I'd rather have a plan A-Z with semi alternates because I like to be prepared!

Is it really a mans way of thinking over a women's way of thinking? I don't know but what I do know is while I plan for tomorrow sometimes I do miss out on what is actually happening right now, but some people that are living in the moment aren't truly prepared for the harsh realities that tomorrow sometimes brings.

Well if you have a thought about this drop it. I am signing off for now.

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